Let’s talk #TryingToConceive: Your parenthood journey
30/10/2023 - 14:00
Pregnancy announcements, gender reveals and magical births are celebrated with great joy – and rightly so – but these wonderful occasions can serve to remind those of us on our own #TryingToConceive journey that we’re not quite there yet. Sound familiar?
If you’re trying to get pregnant then you’re likely to experience a myriad of emotions and each and every one of these feelings is okay. Clearblue, with our help, want to remind you (and others on this journey) that you’re absolutely not alone.
Did you know? Some TTC facts and figures.
Did you know, that for up to 40% of women it takes more time than they expect to get pregnant? So, for every jubilant social post and pregnancy announcement, many of those come after weeks, months or even years of trying.
And, did you know, that 1 in 5 or 20% of couples take more than a year to get pregnant?
A big stat that might be of specific interest if you’re trying to conceive, 1 in 2 (yep 50%) of couples try to conceive on the wrong days? There’s a maximum of six days per cycle when the average woman can conceive and if you miss them, your chances of getting pregnant are almost non-existent.
How can Clearblue help? Clearblue ovulation kits alert you to your most fertile days in every cycle, so you know exactly when to try.
Some #TryingToConceive tips
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Have sex at the right time – having sex on the day of ovulation or in one of the 5 days preceding it is the most effective way to get pregnant naturally. The average cycle is 28-days long so ovulation should be around the 14th day of your cycle but for many women the “average” isn’t accurate. Ensure you understand your own cycle when trying to conceive.
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Take folic acid – pregnant woman and those trying to conceive are advised to take 400mg of folic acid to prevent neural tube defects.
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Look after yourself – When you’re trying to get pregnant it’s more important than ever to take care of yourself – eat well, stay active and avoid smoking.
Will you share your journey with others?
Trying to conceive is, of course, a hugely personal journey but if you’re happy to share, your experiences could be just what someone else needs to keep them going.
Let’s break the taboo around trying to conceive and let others know that they’re not alone. Film your journey and share your results with us. You can record as many videos as you like (from “low” all the way to “peak” fertility) and upload them with us via your own personal drive folder in your member’s area.
@all: How has Clearblue been helping you in your journey so far?
5 Comments
Eddie.Tyrell • 2 years ago
The tips and the blog have been really helpful and we didnt think at first that it would but just seeing others on a similar journey has really helped us try to stay positive and have hope.
Jade • 2 years ago
I haven't received my starter kit yet
Sophieclark1995 • 2 years ago
This has really helped me stay positive and lets me know the best time to try x
Saurabhh • 1 year ago
a must have product in your household. I can easily recommend this to m friends and family.
Amelia68768 • 8 months ago
As I sit down to share my story, I am overwhelmed with emotions, reflecting on the incredible journey that has brought me to where I am today. My name is Amelia, and I am a testament to the power of nature and the resilience of the human spirit. For years, my husband and I struggled with infertility, facing countless disappointments and heartbreaks. But today, I hold my precious child in my arms, conceived through the miraculous power of herbs.
The journey began over five years ago when my husband and I decided to start a family. We had been married for a few years, and everything seemed perfect, but month after month, I would discover that I wasn't pregnant. As the months turned into years, our excitement turned into frustration, and our hopes began to dwindle. We visited numerous hospitals, consulted with specialists, and underwent countless tests, but the diagnosis was always the same: our chances of conceiving were slim.
The emotional toll was immense. I felt like a failure, and the pressure from family and friends only added to our stress. We tried every medical treatment available, from fertility drugs to IVF, but nothing seemed to work. It was as if our dream of having a child was slipping further and further away.
One day, a close friend suggested that we try herbal remedies. At first, I was skeptical, having relied on modern medicine for so long. However, desperation had taken over, and I was willing to try anything. We began our search for the right herbs, consulting with herbalists and reading about various natural remedies.
The herbs we used were carefully selected based on their properties to enhance fertility. There was maca root, known for its ability to balance hormones; chasteberry, which supports ovulation; and red clover, rich in isoflavones that promote reproductive health. We prepared the herbs according to the herbalist's instructions and started our treatment.
The journey wasn't easy. There were times when we doubted the effectiveness of the herbs, and the long history of medical failures made us question whether this would work. However, we were determined to give it our best shot. We combined the herbal treatment with a healthier lifestyle, eating better, exercising regularly, and managing stress.
Months went by, and while we didn't see immediate results, I began to feel a change within myself. My menstrual cycle became more regular, and I felt more energized and positive. Then, one morning, I woke up with a strange feeling—a feeling that something was different. I took a pregnancy test, and to our absolute shock, it was positive!
The joy that followed was indescribable. We couldn't believe that after all the struggles, we were finally going to be parents. The pregnancy was a blessing, filled with moments of happiness, anticipation, and, of course, some challenges. But through it all, we felt a sense of peace and gratitude, knowing that our child was conceived naturally, through the power of herbs.
On February 23 2025, we welcomed our beautiful baby into the world. Holding our child in our arms for the first time was a moment of pure bliss. It was as if all the tears, prayers, and hopes had culminated in this one perfect moment. We named our child Luca, which means "gift of God" in our native language, because that's exactly what our child is—a gift from above, conceived through the miraculous power of nature.
Looking back, I realize that our journey to parenthood taught us patience, resilience, and the importance of faith. While the medical community may not fully understand or acknowledge the power of herbs in fertility, our experience speaks for itself. The herbs worked for us when nothing else did, and for that, we are eternally grateful.
If you're reading this and facing similar challenges, I want you to know that there is hope. Don't give up. Explore all your options, including natural remedies. While herbs may not be the solution for everyone, they were for us, and that's all that matters.
In conclusion, I want to express my deepest gratitude to the herbalist who guided us, to the natural world that provided the herbs, and to God, who blessed us with this precious gift. Our story is a testament to the power of nature and the human spirit's ability to overcome adversity. We hope that our journey will inspire others to explore natural solutions and never lose hope in their quest for parenthood. You can yours from them, this is their email contact, oceanviewtraditioncentre@gmail.com
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